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Ep. 1 What if I don't even know if I want to get married and have kids?
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Ep. 1 What if I don't even know if I want to get married and have kids?

Whispers to not follow the status quo.

So this August, over on my regular pod, I ran a three part series on eldest daughters/hero children all about how we basically repel relationships. I’m actually going to do a Substack newsletter on this very subject because 1) I can’t stop talking about it, and 2) There’s just so much to unpack and understand!

But in the mean time, in the midst of that all, a thoughtful follower wrote in with the following question:

Is it an eldest daughter thing to want to run away and travel and not follow the status quo? Like I don’t even know if I want to get married and have kids. I just want to be free and roam around (since that was restricted growing up).

In today’s short Substack podcast, I’m tackling her question.

Here are a few episodes over on my weekly podcast you also might enjoy:

Ep 121: Are you not the girl who gets asked out? A sneaky way you could be self sabotaging your dating life.

Ep 102: How making a list of all the things you want in a partner is working against you, not for you.

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